Over the years writing this blog, I have received a ton of letters focused on one topic.
You guessed it . . . SEX!
And let me just say, I hear you! I hear you loud and clear.
You want to spice things up in the bedroom.
You want to reconnect with your spouse.
You want to figure out how help your spouse find desire for sex.
You want to increase your desire for sex.
Guess what? Sex has been a challenge in my marriage too. My husband and I have had endless highs and lows in this area.
And arguments about sex plagued us deeply at one point in our marriage.
So not only do I hear you, but I can relate to you as well.
You have asked and I am answering!
I’m sure it comes as no surprise that one of the top things couples fight about is sex. And it’s no wonder they do. We are all different in how often we desire, what turns us on, what we like and don’t like.
That’s why The Married And Naked Podcast has been dedicating the the last several episodes to a 4 part series on 6 Tips to Breaking Down Bedroom Barriers.
In this series I am sharing all the tips that I have learned as to how to break down the walls that may be keeping you from having amazing sex.
In these episodes Joel and I have deep and honest conversations about sex, the barriers we build, and how to break them down. And we share with you important tips on how to create the sex lives we all desire and deserve.
You definitely don’t want to miss these important discussions.
Check out Tip #1 to Breaking Down Bedroom Barriers here.
And then you can listen to tip #2, tips #3 and #4, and tips #5 and #6 here.
I would love to hear your thoughts. Comment below and share.
I hope you find these tips serve you well.
Until next time, take care of each other!
Tammy
This brought me to tears. Can’t wait to share it with my husband. I believe it could be a key to opening the door to conversation that has been too scary for too long.
I am so touched. Thank you for sharing this with me. I really hope it does help. Sending best wishes from us.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing this! The simple line that you are not broken because you have a different desire level. That we are both okay, and that it may not have any bearing on our love for the other. I wish I had heard this 20 years ago and been able to talk about it with my spouse. What a life changer!
I’m so happy that resonated with you. I wish I had learned all this 20 years ago too. And now that we know, it is something that we all need to understand and appreciate about each other. We are all different and we are not broken!